Sometimes, You REALLY JUST Need to Get Out of Your Own Head

As entrepreneurs, solopreneurs, and creatives, we spend so much time in our own minds—strategizing, planning, overanalyzing. But sometimes, the best thing we can do is step outside of ourselves and truly listen to someone else.

I had this experience today when I met a new friend visiting from the UK. She shared her dreams, her vision, and her goals with such passion that it was impossible not to feel inspired.

And the most beautiful part? I got to witness her joy.

Seeing that energy—how her entire presence shifted when she spoke about what excites her—was a reminder of how powerful it is to simply be present for someone.

The Magic of Watching Someone Light Up

Have you ever been in a conversation where, the moment someone starts talking about something they love, the whole environment changes?

Their eyes brighten.
Their voice becomes more animated.
Their energy fills the space.

That joy is contagious. It elevates the conversation, and if you're open to it, it can elevate you too.

Because when you listen to someone else talk about their vision, you start to see the possibilities for your own.

Why We Need to Listen More

We often get stuck in self-doubt.
We question if we’re making the right moves.
We hesitate because we don’t feel “ready.”

But then, we hear someone else sharing their own dreams—their excitement, their fears, their risks—and it reminds us that we’re all figuring it out as we go.

That’s why these conversations are so powerful.

They reflect our own potential back to us.

The Ripple Effect of Sharing Energy

This isn’t just about being inspired by others.

It’s about creating a cycle of energy and encouragement.

When we listen deeply, we validate someone’s passion.
When we give space for others to express themselves, we help them feel seen.
When we support each other, we all rise together.

This doesn’t have to happen in person. A simple phone call, a voice note, a quick online chat—any moment of connection can be transformative.

Sometimes, we assume that real inspiration comes from deep introspection or solo work. But what if the key to unlocking new ideas and creative energy is actually being in conversation with others?

When we allow ourselves to engage fully, to listen without the need to interject or respond right away, we’re opening a door to something bigger than just words. We’re sharing space, exchanging energy, and expanding our perspectives in ways that wouldn’t happen alone.

Try This: Build More Moments of Connection Into Your Week

If you’re feeling stuck, uninspired, or overwhelmed, try this:

1️⃣ Reach out to someone you admire. Ask about what they’re working on.
2️⃣ Be fully present. Listen without thinking about what you'll say next.
3️⃣ Pay attention to what resonates. Notice if their passion sparks something in you.
4️⃣ Reflect on your own path. Did their energy shift the way you feel about your own work?
5️⃣ Create space for more of these moments. Prioritize real, meaningful conversations.

These small, intentional acts of connection can do more than just motivate you—they can bring clarity, momentum, and a renewed sense of purpose.

Let’s Keep This Conversation Going

What’s a time when listening to someone else completely shifted your perspective?
Have you ever felt stuck, only to be reignited by a conversation with a friend?

I’d love to hear your thoughts. Drop a comment, send a message—let’s make connection and collaboration a bigger part of how we grow.

Because the more we share, the more we all rise together.

P.S. This post was inspired by the lovely and wonderfully talented, Miss Emma Chow. A gem walking amongst us…